Mastering Focus and Self-Esteem
Learn how to master your focus, build self-esteem, and live a purposeful life by aligning with your deepest desires and serving something greater than yourself.
Where is your focus going? It’s easy to get upset about something, but where do you tend to focus more—your past, present, or future? We all spend time in all three, but the key is where you spend the majority of your energy. Achievers often focus on the future, but true joy lies in the present. Many people spend too much time dwelling on the past, which is problematic because the past can’t be changed. Instead, they focus on what’s missing rather than what they have, and what they can’t control rather than what they can.
There are two worlds: the external world and the internal world. While we can’t control the external world, we can influence it. What we can control is our internal world—our focus, the meaning we assign to events, and the actions we take. When we master these three decisions, we take control of our lives, and anxiety tends to fade away. This is especially true when our focus is on serving something greater than ourselves.
Self-esteem isn’t something you’re born with—it’s earned. It’s not about being praised by others but about doing difficult, meaningful things that push you beyond your limits. When you find something you care about more than yourself, your self-esteem naturally increases. The real question is: What do you want? Whether it’s building a business, raising a family, or creating art, aligning your actions with your deepest desires is the key to a fulfilling life.
Success isn’t just about willpower; it’s about finding something that pulls you forward. When you’re obsessed with creating or serving something meaningful, you’ll find an endless source of energy. Remember, wherever your focus goes, energy flows. Discipline your disappointments, focus on what’s right, and use every experience life gives you to grow stronger and wiser.
